Something that we each want and search for is peace. To get
it, there is a price to pay. When there is war, the sacrifice of lives is devastating.
The world tries to attain it through negotiations and compromise. But the personal
war we are faced with through illnesses, divorce, abuse, aging, and oppression will
rob us of peace if we don’t also manage our thinking and focus. In this case
the cost is dying to self and absorbing the peace that only God can give. So, how
do we gain peace? We learn from God’s Word, and fix our mind and heart on Jesus
Christ.
Personally, Philippians has been a great teacher on the
subject. Coming to the One (God) who knows and cares about our troubles is the
only way I have found peace. Yes, it is necessary to face the valleys in life
honestly with truth and reckon with our limitations. It is necessary to process
the physical and emotional issues that seem debilitating at times. Having
experienced an unwanted divorce and illnesses creating limitations, sacrificing
self-pity and grumbling is my sacrifice to obtain peace. I have found it is
impossible to experience peace unless I can refocus on those things that are
honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, or excellent. For me, these are
found enjoying a simple meal, writing, examining scripture, reading, playing a
game, and especially being with loving people. Learning to be content wherever
I find myself is the most peaceful place. Accepting the way things are, and
allowing God to give me the strength to
handle my weaknesses brings internal peace even if external things don’t
change.
Contentment and peace walk hand in hand. Reframing our thinking and rejoicing over the things that are true (His truth), honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, and praise worthy is the key. Practice turning the darkness off and the light of truth on – it has made all the difference for me – and it can for you as well.
by Joy Pedersen
